Permanent Chastity: Common Mistakes and Simple Solutions
For many of us, the idea of a life sentence is a daunting proposition, but for permanent chastity practitioners, being locked up 24/7 is the stuff wet dreams are made of.
Permanent chastity is the practice of wearing a chastity cage or device for an extended period of time, with no end date in sight. It’s a commitment to denying your sexual pleasure and can be done as part of a BDSM dynamic, to broaden your sexual horizons or simply because you enjoy the feeling of being controlled.
Some people find that permanent chastity helps them to focus more on other aspects of their lives while others enjoy the heightened sense of arousal that comes with being denied pleasure.
As one self-proclaimed “chastity enthusiast” we spoke to explained: “It’s a real game-changer! There’s something so freeing about not having to worry about sex or masturbation. It’s like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Plus, the sexual tension is off the charts. It’s like every touch, every kiss, every little thing is magnified. It’s intense.”
But, as with any activity, there are some common mistakes that people make when embarking on their permanent chastity adventures. These mistakes can ruin the experience and can potentially even be dangerous.
In this article, we will look at 3 of the most common mistakes and how they can be avoided.
Mistake 1: Poor Communication
Communication is key in any kind of sexual activity but it’s especially important when it comes to chastity play. After all, if one person isn’t on the same page as the other, things can quickly become uncomfortable and can even put chastity device wearers in danger.
For example, part of the thrill of chastity play and BDSM, in general, is that one person usually assumes a sub role and the other the dom role with these roles only filled when the BDSM session begins. Before and after, the two people may have an entirely different relationship and power structure. This means that before every session, rules, boundaries and other important considerations can be discussed for the benefit and safety of all involved.
During permanent chastity, however, the lines between roleplay and “real” life become blurred. What if the chastity device wearer is so involved in their role that they never tell their dom that their device is painful? What if they genuinely aren’t enjoying the experience but their role means they are not allowed to question their keyholder’s authority?
With that in mind, here are:
5 Effective Communication Tips for Permanent Chastity
Mistake 2: Uncomfortable Chastity Devices
This one may seem like a no-brainer but it’s surprising how many people don’t take the time to find a chastity device that fits them properly. Not only can an ill-fitting device be uncomfortable but it can also cause some serious issues down the line.
One practitioner we spoke to had this to say:
“I thought I could get away with buying a cheap device but it was so uncomfortable that I could barely wear it for more than a few hours at a time. Plus, it started to cause some chafing, which as you can imagine, was not fun.”
So, how can you choose a comfortable chastity device that can be worn 24/7?
Simple! By shopping at Cock Cages UK and by following these:
5 Tips for Choosing a Comfortable Chastity Device
Mistake 3: Sealing the Chastity Device Permanently
Now, let’s talk about a mistake that might seem like a good idea in the moment but can cause serious problems later on. We’re talking about permanently sealing your chastity device.
We get it - the idea of being completely at the mercy of your keyholder (or your own willpower) can be appealing. But sealing the device permanently can be dangerous and even life-threatening in certain situations.
Here are some important reasons:
Why You Should Always Have a Removable Chastity Device
Permanent chastity can be a rewarding and fulfilling practice but it’s important to avoid common mistakes and take care of your body and your relationship. By communicating openly, choosing a comfortable device and keeping things safe, you can enjoy all the benefits of chastity play without any unnecessary risks. Stay safe and happy playing!