Permanent Chastity Contracts: The Ultimate Guide

Have you ever considered giving up control of your manhood to someone else? Well, you're not alone. More and more people are exploring the world of chastity with permanent chastity (wearing a chastity cage or device 24/7) becoming ever more popular. However, permanent chastity is not something to walk into without careful consideration and clear trust and understanding between the user and the keyholder. The best way to ensure this is with a permanent chastity contract.

But what exactly are chastity contracts? And what should you look out for before signing on the dotted line?

In this article, we'll explore everything you need to know about permanent chastity contracts, from the important terms to the non-negotiables that every contract should include.

What are Permanent Chastity Contracts?

A permanent chastity contract is a legal document between two or more parties that outlines the terms and conditions of a chastity relationship. Essentially, it's a way of formalising the power dynamic between a keyholder (the person who holds the key to the chastity device) and a user (the person wearing the chastity device).

Important Terms in a Chastity Contract

Before we dive into the different types of chastity relationships and what should be included in a permanent chastity contract, let's go over some important terms:

Chastity Device: A device designed to prevent the user from achieving an erection or having sexual intercourse. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, from novelty chastity cages to chastity belts.

User: The person wearing the chastity device.

Keyholder: The person who holds the key to the chastity device and has control over when the user is allowed to orgasm.

Dom: Short for dominant, a person who takes on a controlling role in a BDSM relationship.

Sub: Short for submissive, a person who takes on a more submissive role in a BDSM relationship.

Hard Limits: Activities that are off-limits and cannot be negotiated by either party.

Potential Hard Limits

While permanent chastity contracts can be a thrilling and erotic way to explore BDSM, it's important to establish hard limits that are not up for negotiation. Here are a few potential hard limits that you may want to consider including in your permanent chastity contract:

Being freed regularly for washing and hygiene

It's important to ensure that the user is able to maintain good hygiene while wearing the chastity device. One hard limit that many people include in their contracts is a requirement for regular cleaning and hygiene breaks.

Not being allowed to keep a key

In some cases, the keyholder may not want to give the user access to the key at all. This should always be a hard limit for the user because it is vital the user has their own key for emergency situations.

Being forced to use an uncomfortable chastity cage

While some people enjoy the sensation of a tight or restrictive chastity device, others may find it uncomfortable or even painful. Including a hard limit that ensures the user is not forced to wear a chastity device that causes physical discomfort can help to ensure that the experience is enjoyable for everyone involved.

Being forced to wear/do something that affects other aspects of your life

While exploring chastity can be a lot of fun, it's important to ensure that it doesn't interfere with other areas of your life. The best way to do this is to include a hard limit that prohibits the keyholder from requiring the user to wear or do something that could affect their job, family life or other responsibilities.

An Example Permanent Chastity Contract

This is a permanent chastity contract between ____________________ (Keyholder) and _________________________ (User). This contract will begin upon both parties signing and will commence for ______________ days, from ___________________(date) until __________________ (date). If the use fails to follow the rules set out in this contract, punishment will be given by the keyholder or the contract will be terminated.

Definitions

Chastity Device: The agreed device worn by the user to prevent them from achieving an erection or having sexual intercourse.
User: The person wearing the chastity device.
Keyholder: The person who holds the key to the chastity device and has control over when the user is allowed to orgasm/take off the device.
Hard Limits: Activities that the user and keyholder have agreed upon.

User Agreement

I, [USER NAME], agree to wear the chastity device provided by my keyholder at all times, except as otherwise specified in this contract.

I agree to follow any instructions or rules provided by my keyholder and obey their commands at all times.

I understand that I will not be allowed to orgasm without the express permission of my keyholder.

I agree to provide regular check-ins with my keyholder to ensure that they are satisfied with my behaviour and progress.

Keyholder Agreement

I, [KEYHOLDER NAME], agree to hold the key to the chastity device worn by [USER NAME] at all times.

I agree to provide regular check-ins with [USER NAME] to ensure that they are safe and comfortable while wearing the chastity device.

I understand that I am responsible for deciding when [USER NAME] is allowed to orgasm and I agree to take this responsibility seriously.

I agree to follow any rules or instructions provided by [USER NAME] and to take their safety and well-being into account at all times.

Hygiene and Safety Agreement

[USER NAME] agrees to remove the chastity device for regular cleaning and hygiene breaks as determined by [KEYHOLDER NAME].

[KEYHOLDER NAME] agrees to provide [USER NAME] with clear instructions on how to clean and maintain the chastity device, and to ensure that it is properly fitted and adjusted for maximum comfort and safety.

[USER NAME] and [KEYHOLDER NAME] both agree to take any necessary steps to ensure that [USER NAME] remains safe and healthy while wearing the chastity device, including seeking medical attention if necessary.

Hard Limits

[USER NAME] will not be required to wear the chastity device for more than [INSERT TIME FRAME] without a hygiene break.

[KEYHOLDER NAME] is required to provide [USER NAME] with a key to the chastity device at all times.

[USER NAME] will not be required to wear a chastity device that causes significant discomfort or pain.

[USER NAME] will not be required to engage in any activities or behaviours that could jeopardise their work or personal life.

Penalties

In the event that [USER NAME] violates any of the terms outlined in this contract, [KEYHOLDER NAME] may impose punishments as outlined below:

Spanking: In the case of a minor violation, [KEYHOLDER NAME] may administer a spanking to [USER NAME] as a reminder of the terms of the contract.

Time-Out in Bondage: In the case of a more serious violation, [KEYHOLDER NAME] may require [USER NAME] to spend a specified amount of time in bondage.

Suspension in Suspension Bondage: In the case of repeated or egregious violations, [KEYHOLDER NAME] may suspend [USER NAME] in suspension bondage, effectively ending their ability to move freely.

Termination of Contract: In the event that either party wishes to terminate this contract, they may do so by providing written notice to the other party.

Both parties agree to abide by the BDSM punishments outlined in this section and acknowledge that any violation of the terms of this contract may result in the imposition of BDSM punishments by the other party.

I ____________________________ [USER NAME] hereby agree to the terms of this contract

Signed: ______________________ Date: ____________________

I ____________________________ [KEYHOLDER NAME] hereby agree to the terms of this contract